A popular ice cream shop two blocks from my (parents') home was robbed at gunpoint over the weekend. Although I was home at the time (I am usually about 2 hours away), I was too stuffed from Tom's birthday lunch to pout until I got ice cream (yes, this does usually happen). So, there I was alone in my room, a short two blocks away, hearing pops and sirens, seeing blue an dred lights from my bedroom window, and not knowing what exactly was happening until nearly an hour later.
While I am not reporting this to get sympathy (although I remember him working there, I did not actually know the boy who was killed), I am mostly writing to attempt to put things into perspective.
Most of my time now is spent in Madison, where I work and attend school. This means that I am often found walking home alone late at night from work or friends' apartments in the downtown area. Now, I always walk with a friend or another person if I can, and at the very least I call someone while I walk so that, if something should happen, at least SOMEONE knows. Anyway, I often rationalize walking alone because, after all, its only a few blocks. Now all I can think about is that this happened only a few blocks from where I was sitting.. a most chilling thought.
Luckily, our campus does have a program called SAFEWALK which I could call if I felt threatened, although I'm not sure if they operate during the summer season. Anyway, despite this particular crime having been committed over a hundred miles from where I now sit, all I can think about is: If this can happen where I grew up, in a place I have always frequented.. it really could happen anywhere. Of course, this also brings back memories of a girl who was brutally murdered in her apartment, about 18 months ago, in an area heavily populated by UW students. This crime, to my knowledge, has not yet been solved.
I guess what I wish to say is: we all tend to become comfortable in our surroundings, perhaps artificially so, and, while I'm not suggesting we all live in fear, I would like to say, be careful, pay attention, and if something/someone seems out of place in your neighborhood, be extra cautious and report it.
Stay safe, everyone.